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Intriguing article<\/a> in the New York Times<\/em> a week ago\u2014as part of Dan Barry’s fascinating “This Land”<\/a> series\u2014on “double-proxy weddings,” performed only in Montana. Through the process, couples who cannot meet physically in order to be married have stand-ins do the job for them.<\/p>\n \u201cCeremony No. 1,\u201d says the judge, Heidi Ulbricht. That would be the marriage between two members of the Air Force far, far removed from this room in the Flathead County Courthouse. The real groom is 7,300 miles away, in Qatar, while the real bride is merely 1,700 miles away, in Kentucky.<\/p>\n \u201cWe are gathered here today in the presence of these witnesses to join in holy matrimony this man and this woman, who have applied for and received a marriage license from the state,\u201d the judge says.<\/p>\n Turning to Sarah Knapton, 22, college student and professional proxy bride, she asks: \u201cWill you have this man by proxy to be your lawful wedded husband, and with him to live together in holy matrimony pursuant to the laws of God and this state?\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cI do,\u201d answers Ms. Knapton, elbow on table, chin in hand.<\/p>\n \u201cWill you love him, comfort him, honor and keep him both in sickness and in health, and forsaking all others keep you only unto him, so long as you both shall live?\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cI do,\u201d Ms. Knapton intones again.<\/p>\n The judge now asks these life-altering questions of Kyle Kirkland, 22, mason and professional proxy groom, who is signing various marriage documents. He says, \u201cI do,\u201d twice without looking up once.<\/p>\n By the virtue of the authority vested in her, Judge Ulbricht pronounces an absent military couple husband and wife, all in a Montana minute.<\/p>\n The cost to the real bride and groom: $900, $50 apiece to the proxies, $100 to the judge, $150 to the lawyer (and witness); $53 for court fees; $14 for two certified copies of the marriage certificate; and the rest to a Pennsylvania couple who run a business facilitating proxy marriages.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n