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When asked about marriage, or even when not, I typically say that it’s a hard thing to do well; that probably, apart from raising children, it’s the hardest thing anyone will ever attempt. And that, in marriage, communication is not only important, but that it is the blood plasma<\/em> of your relationship, though, again, it is always a difficult thing to do correctly. And that you need to have an unbreakable agreement that your marriage is for life for it to even have a chance at working. And that, particularly as a person who aspires to Christianity, you need God in your relationship to make it work. And that…well, you get the idea.<\/p>\n These are hard-earned truths from over 15 years of betrothal to Zakiya, and, believe me, I’m learning more all the time, every day, or at least trying to do so.<\/p>\n But this guy<\/a> says forget all that: Just don’t get married and, if you do, do not, under any circumstances, marry an American woman<\/strong>.<\/p>\n On the NoMarriage<\/a> web site, its unnamed creator and author\u2014he’s done an ebook<\/a>\u2014lists links to short pieces, mostly by him. There, in the strongest, four-letter-worded arguments possible, he addresses these among many, pressing topics:<\/p>\n \u2022 American women will bring out the WORST in you<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n \u2022 How women manipulate you<\/a> <\/strong><\/p>\n \u2022 Enduring The Incessant Whining of Single Females on Valentines Day<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n and my favorite title:<\/p>\n \u2022 Give me ONE good reason why a man should sign a marriage contract with an American woman<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n He explains<\/a> that The purpose of NoMarriage.com website is to allow men to better understand two very important issues that get very little attention:<\/p>\n \u2022 4 out of 5 men regret marrying.<\/strong><\/p>\n Divorce rate is around 60%. Majority of remaining married men are stuck in sexless marriages with nagging and bitching wives, but they choose not to divorce because they are afraid of being wiped out financially during divorce. Furthermore, majority of relatively happy marriages are among very religious people, people choosing to live a simple lifestyle, people living in the rural South\/Midwest, and recent Hispanic immigrants. If you are a normal American guy living in a large metropolitan area marrying a normal college-educated American woman who is looking for the American dream (a nice house, kids, good life), then you are extremely likely to either get divorced or trapped in a miserable marriage.<\/p>\n \u2022 Foreign women from Latin America, Eastern Europe, and Asia make much better wives than American women.<\/strong><\/p>\n An American woman has several fundamental problems that will never go away and that will get much worse a few years after she is married:<\/p>\n 1. Her inherent anti-male bias and pre-occupation with fairness that was drilled into her at high school, college, and through the media. Her constant confrontations and trying to prove herself and to make a point.<\/p>\n 2. Her self-centeredness, her ridiculously high expectations, her sense of entitlement, her high-maintenance, superficial, and stuck up attitude, her snootiness and her sense of superiority. This “princess” syndrome means that she will always think that she is better than you, and that she deserves and she is entitled to whatever she wants from you.<\/p>\n 3. Her general mental instability and psychological disorders.<\/p>\n 4. Her using sex as a weapon and reward to get things.<\/p>\n Foreign women generally don’t have any of these problems. Marrying an American woman simply does not make sense. The ONLY reason men stay with American women is because they did not have enough exposure to foreign women. Any man who spent a few months in Brazil or Russia will not even look at American women again.<\/p>\n Dating or being married to an American woman is like driving a beat-up Ford Escort. If you are only used to driving a beat-up Ford Escort, then you have no idea what it feels like when you drive a Bentley or Ferrari.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n Dude: Tell us what you really<\/em> think. Don’t hold back this time.<\/p>\n He also links this incentivizing picture, below, to his other web site, SingleAbroad<\/a>,<\/p>\n
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